Jump to content

Livingthedreamhoney123

Members
  • Content Count

    38
  • Joined

  • Last visited

Community Reputation

10 Good

Recent Profile Visitors

The recent visitors block is disabled and is not being shown to other users.

  1. Livingthedreamhoney123

    Caroline Flack DEAD at 40

    My points are these 1) A woman does not know who is addicted and who is not. At the point when the porn addict is strangling her and going "you like this don't you"... she finds out. Do I want to get to that point? No. So I avoid men, despite being hetro. I miss sex, but not so much that I want to be hurt. And its not just men you don't know. This addiction affects long term relationships too. A perfectly normal and loving man, can get addicted, simply because those who orchestrate any addiction, know what they are doing. Take gambling for example. 2)I am very aware of the "psych-op" out there whereby men are given the impression that women want to be damaged during sex. Broken bones, blinding, etc. Obviously "Fifty Shades" was a certain "psych op", but there are pseudo-science studies whereby men are fooled into thinking that its a "top ten sexual fantasy" for women. This makes their addiction a "good thing" in their own eyes, because "she will like it". Someone on here even quoted one. I would have thought people on here knew about "psych ops" And the "psych-op" is so strong that when the women has got herself, her kids and the family pet to a place of safety, the man is going "Ah, but she liked it really." That's the nature of addiction to violent porn. 3) As I have no access to what ALL men think, I can have no way of telling what ALL men think, so the question doesn't make sense. All I can do is acknowledge that while this addiction to violent sex, via porn, becomes the norm, in the country where I live.... then..... I need to stay away from men in general And I do.. I simply want to stay safe. 4) What did Caroline Flack experience to make her fight back against her boyfriend?
  2. Livingthedreamhoney123

    Caroline Flack DEAD at 40

    No, I am not meeting the wrong sort of people, and again, this is an attempt to negate my intelligence, and involve others in doing so. I have five post graduate qualifications and I've worked hard to gain them, having attended a crap comprehensive in the 80's, amid a chaotic background/family life. I was a teenage carer. I learnt to protect myself, which is why I'm going to leave this forum. Every time I make a point about an issue, it is turned around on me, with the sort of personal comment that I quoted above. Why not debate the issue, rather than negate the person making the issue? Because it is easier to attack a person, rather than consider the points that s/he makes.... so... why waste my time? The people that I meet, are people who married in their 20's and 30's... or who "Partnered up" at that age. They invested decades into make their relationship work. They risked their health by having children, risked their finances, risked so much, and they expected that there would be a return investment from their husbands/partners. But during that time, the addiction to violent porn was put in place, and the lie went out, (via Fifty Shades of Grey for example) that "women were into it"... This caused the break up of families, because the woman had to protect the children, the family dog, and their own selves, from a man who gets a hard on from hurting. So during the lifetime of these marriages, the addiction to violent porn, created sadists. And the women had to cope with it, by getting away from the sadists. And instead of engaging with this problem, you make silly remarks. What on earth is the point of debating with you?
  3. Livingthedreamhoney123

    Caroline Flack DEAD at 40

    As I said to you before, the people responsible for this addiction to violent porn are the same people who set up addictions to other things, and then rake in the money. Addictions to gambling, drugs, smoking, etc.... they just wreck the life of the addict, (unless he is married.) Addiction to violent porn, wreck the life of the woman who gets involved with the porn addict. The people who organise these addictions are clever. They put out the idea, (which the gullibles will quote..) that women WANT to be damaged, that it is a "top ten sexual fantasy" to be damaged. (Its all lies of course, and I ignored your link.). Once they've got gullible silly men to believe that, then they've got their potential addict. So they start the men off on fairly mild SM, and get them addicted to that, but after a while, that doesn't have the same effect. So they make the men pay for the next stage of horror, an then the next and eventually they achieve their aim, of making the men pay upwards of £50,000 to see a woman or child, damaged for hours, until they die. Its an addiction. The men will pay, because they are enslaved to it. Back to Caroline Flack. Do we know what she was going through? Do we know what any woman goes through? No women is going to shout from the rooftop, "My beloved is addicted to violent porn". Also, feminism has nothing to do with it really. Its about money, as I've said before. I knew a porn addict in the world of advertising, who was an award winner, top of his game, wouldn't hurt anyone, and became so porn addicted that he ended up losing everything including his wife and his beloved children. She beat him up. He couldn't see for two days. I don't condone her actions. But those who created this addiction, can ensnare the most savvy, intelligent men, and he is certainly one of them. Do we know what made Caroline Flack beat up her chap, if indeed she did?
  4. Livingthedreamhoney123

    Caroline Flack DEAD at 40

    My point (as you well know), is that women don't know WHICH men are dangerous and which are not dangerous. There is no telling. And to illustrate that point, I gave you the case of the Warwick Chat Room . The girls had no idea that the boys in their friendship circle, wanted to smash their faces, their vaginas, pour acid into them, chain them to beds for a month, gang rape them etc. They found this out by mistake, because one of the boys thought they'd find it funny.
  5. Livingthedreamhoney123

    Caroline Flack DEAD at 40

    Truthspoon, when a novelist uses his or her imagination, to write a novel, the characters are not real. The difference here is that the young men in the chat rooms were "friends" with the young women that they depicted as women that they'd like to chain up to a bed, rape, beat, throw acid on. So this group would be writing this stuff to each other, and five mins later, they'd be having a friendly lunch with the women that they'd depicted. That really isn't the significant part of it. The really strange thing about it is. …. they had no idea that this was wrong... they had no idea that any sort of moral code existed when it came down to how to treat women. So I don't think that their social class comes into it - because this is happening in universities whereby people are less "Public School" than Warwick. Also, the idea from you that I need to "calm down" is written in order to depict me in a negative light, because you don't like the points that I'm making. So. Rather than play along with your negation, I will make the points again. And put them in bold, and underline them, so that any further attempts to negate me, or my points, is diminished. Addiction to violent porn is making men unable to distinguish between loving sex an sex that leads to damage and harm and sometimes death. Do we know what Caroline Flack was going through?
  6. Livingthedreamhoney123

    Caroline Flack DEAD at 40

    May I request that you go to youtube and type in Warwick university rape chat rooms? At Warwick and various other universities, a situation has arisen amid a group of friends, that includes both male and females. The females trust the males and assume that trust and respect is mutual. Not so. In these various friendship groups amid the universities, the males have got together in chat rooms to create fantasies about torturing, humiliating, murdering and gang raping the females in their friendship groups. Quite by chance, a girl was shown these remarks and she took photographs of what was said. There is a BBC documentary about it. What was significant is that the young men who formed the rape-chat-groups didn't think they'd done anything wrong. They thought it was a normal thing do so, due to their porn addictions. Warwick university played around with trying to discipline the males, but the males just took the slap on the wrist and created another rape chat room. So your idea that "all men are potential rapists" as feminist bullshit doesn't seem accurate to me. Nobody forced those young men to create torture scenes for the women that they had lunch with, went on holiday with etc. They did that because they enjoyed it. Feel free to research this. I'd put in a link if I knew how
  7. Livingthedreamhoney123

    Caroline Flack DEAD at 40

    My reality is certainly different to yours. You claim mine is "full of men addicted to violent sex" as a way of writing me off as a paranoid fool, and you wish those reading this, to do so too. That way you won't have to address the issue of what porn has done to men. My reality has been an observation of women who fell in love with what they hoped was a good man, who would be a caring loving father and husband..... and then to end up with a man who cheats, beats her and steals from the joint bank account. Men who smoke weed. Men who gamble. And worst of all men who are addicted to violent porn so that she is no longer safe and her children and family pets are no longer safe. A woman can grit her teeth and co-exist with the stealing cheating waster on weed. A woman can secure her home against the gambler and protect her money too. A woman can call the police when the beatings get too much - or - she can learn martial arts and give it back. A woman can manage a marriage for the sake of the kids, for a certain time, before she gets rid of him, UNLESS he is into violent porn. At that point, all her female friends will tell her to get away before he kills her via torture and claims in court that she wanted it. Violent porn is different. So, back to Caroline Flack. We don't know what she went through in her life to make her depressed. We don't know what men did to her, before her current partner came along. But we do know that her generation of women have had to deal with men who are addicted to violent porn, ON THEIR OWN. There's not much help out there. The only way our society can heal from the effects of violent porn, is if men themselves put a stop to it. Maybe that will happen. Maybe that is how men will redeem themselves.
  8. Livingthedreamhoney123

    Caroline Flack DEAD at 40

    I think the reason that we won't see this is due to MONEY. The truth doesn't always "sell". And the truth is, that due to the rise in violent porn, women are too scared to get close to men and have sex with them. Why? Because that man could damage you physically and claim that "you wanted it"... and that is if you survive. THE RULES OF THE DATING GAME HAVE CHANGED.... Its not about searching for love, commitment and a life long friendship/romance anymore. Its a case of "Should I risk getting close to a man, or is he so porn-mind-dazzled that I will end up his victim?" Sex isn't worth it. If he strangles you, breaks your bones, whips you, beats you, urinates on you, slaps you, etc.... that's not sex. That's you being in the same bed as a dangerous criminal. How do we know what Caroline Flack went through? How do we know what any woman goes through? We don't all wise up to how men's mind's have been damaged do we? I'm hetro-sexual and I doubt if I will have sex again. Why? Because it is terrifying out there. You don't know which men are good and which want to damage you, until its too late. And for some women, "too late" means death. And also you say that women "blame others for the problems in life".... Well, who created the problem of men being addicted to violent porn? It wasn't romantically inclined women and girls was it? None of the love-novels in literature, claims that to fall in love with a man who gets turned on by hurting you is "where its at." The problem was created by businessmen who knew that the fasted way to make money, is to create an addiction. So the addictions to smoking, to alcohol, to drugs.... these were happening. Next addiction? Get men turned on to violent sex. And so that happened for a generation of men, and it is still happening... and then these men get confused as to why their women and children are staying away from them. And YOU claim that women created this problem? Not so. Those who want to make money out of an addiction, quite happily created this situation. Sad that men aren't warned about it.
  9. Livingthedreamhoney123

    Caroline Flack DEAD at 40

    Sadly it is not true that "adult women are capable of making their own decisions about their own lives in the same way men are" Women, due to their physical weakness, AND (lets be honest), the fact that they can imagine that a man loves them, when really he is just using them, … and that this tendency to imagine love where none exists, is very strong between the age of 14 to 24... … women can become enslaved much more easily. And from this position of enslavement, they don't make the same choices as men, on the level playing field that YOU say exists, but actually it does not. Biology/Nature/call it what you will... has not created men and women as "equal". Sad but true.
  10. Livingthedreamhoney123

    Caroline Flack DEAD at 40

    How can you quantify if there are "many women who are into this sort of thing?" I'm middle aged, and have had zillions of conversations with women. They RUN A MILE from any man, (or woman if they are gay), who tries to damage them during sex, unless of course, they have some self-hatred issues. And some women do have issues that makes them enjoy being damaged, physically and/or psychologically. And by "run a mile", I know of two women who were so shocked by being strangled that one LEFT the father of her two children, and will not see him and will not let the kids see him..... (I don't think she's told them why, but eventually they'll have to know that is it because Daddy tried murder Mum during sex. Hopefully they'll be adults when she tells them. ) And another friend was actually married to a guy, from Poland, when out of the blue, he started on this strangulation thing, and she called the lawyer and started divorce proceedings at once. She explained the problem to her Dad and he came round with a van and moved her and her little girl out of the house asap. No way could she sleep in the same bed with that guy and she didn't want him to damage her daughter too. He went from much loved husband and daddy, to a person that was dangerous. Were these men who lost their families/partners/wives/kids, as you say "being demonised?" No. They certainly created the problem in the relationship by adding in attempted murder..... its a clear indication that the love has gone and hate has arrived. Its over. They created the problem by getting addicted to violent porn..... designed by money-people to turn men on by hurting women. To say this is not to demonise men who become addicted to violence.... but...… who would want to be around them? It is just "these men created a problem, and the women had to solve the problem to protect her and the children" It was a simple practical reaction to a problem. If you want to live, stay away from men who try to kill you during sex, and then say you are into it. If you want your kids to have a Mum, then pack up and move out immediately.
  11. Livingthedreamhoney123

    Caroline Flack DEAD at 40

    https://wecantconsenttothis.uk/ Warning - this is terrifying and depressing to read. Its a list of females age 15 to 78 who have died as a result of violent sex, which their partners/violent strangers, claimed that they "wanted" to happen. For all we know, Caroline Flack's boyfriend, might have been one of those guys who think porn is real, and tried to hurt her, claiming she'd "enjoy it", (which is what most of these men say), and she defended herself by decking him with a lamp. In a hissy fit reaction, he phoned the police. That sad thing about these girls is that most of them are too young to know about porn and how it effects men, and how the phrase "likes it rough", can lead to broken bones, and death.
  12. Livingthedreamhoney123

    All the good girls go to hell, song by Billie Eilish

    I read somewhere that Shirley Temple (freakishly good child actor in the 1930's and 1940's) was trained to work in a way that meant that she would get it right in "one take". This included punishments for missed lines, or missed dance steps, that included placing her in a box with only a large ice cube and closing the lid. So basically, she worked her entire childhood, in a state of terror and fear, just in case a mistake caused her to be put in a box. I think there's a similar thing going on with todays artists - They have some sort of fear that drives them to do whatever they are told to do... an in this instances its a case of "look like you are out of it".
  13. Livingthedreamhoney123

    Caroline Flack DEAD at 40

    "They" say they're equal. Well isn't this a distortion of what women have been saying since the time of Shakespeare's plays? And probably before, if you think of Chaucer's tales. And both those writers were men, so they must have been using the female point of view, when writing? (Check out Emilia's "these men" speech as she talks to Desdemona in Othello) To side step the distortion - Women are not physically equal to men, and they are also subject to difficulties in life that are part of the reproductive process, (mensuration, pregnancy, menopause etc) which can prevent them from all manner of things that men can do without those difficulties on board. That's just a fact of life. So the idea of "equality" isn't really built into "nature" as it were. What women have requested is the following from men. 1)The right to live without fear of beatings, rape, bullying, etc - all the nasty stuff. 2) The right to have children and be able to earn money to support those children, (a very difficult thing - and not achieved yet.) 3) The right to abort (I'm against abortion, but I think it should stay legal, because otherwise women will seek backstreet abortionists) 4) The right to an education, medication, sanitation, shelter etc, (you could say that was a human right all over the world) 5) The right to divorce a man who is making their life hell, and to seek protection from the state, should that man track them down to kill them. (happens far too often.) Those are the five basic requests... and I think they are reasonable. But - along came CIA agent Gloria Steinmen and an entire host of crazies, who refused to acknowledge the biology differences between men and women, and who tried to "sell" us the idea that women's lives were the same as men's lives, and that women's sensuality was the same as men's. Not so. Women's sensuality is based on creating a safe space, nesting, nurturing. No wonder men are angry, confused, and avoiding women. They've been held accountable for things that are only DONE to women by the violent minority of men, AND, in the good old days, it was the men themselves who encircled and beat up the men who tried to damage women, whether it was by selling porn, or getting a girl pregnant and running off, or beating up the wife or mother, or molesting the daughter. In the tribal days, the men themselves held the power to make other men pay for bad conduct towards women. I think we lost a lot when that stopped.
  14. Livingthedreamhoney123

    Caroline Flack DEAD at 40

    Excatly - its a very creepy thing to do to a dead person. My guess is that there is one thing that would cause all that blood. A miscarriage. And anyone who has longed for a child, age 40, and then experiences as miscarriage..... while also being on anti-depressants, and dealing with online bullying.... is a person who might well kill themselves. A miscarriage is really rough on the emotions.
  15. Livingthedreamhoney123

    All the good girls go to hell, song by Billie Eilish

    For all we know, they are giving her drugs to keep her in line. Her parents are in showbiz.
×